I am another transgirl with a beard, and I now see myself as beautiful. I really do. It took a while, since I thought beauty was the commercial version, the one that sells a packaged look. But in our hearts we know that another kind of beauty all humans respond more deeply to is personal- and has to do with our longing for honesty and transparency, innocence and kindness. I am beautiful to another when I am all here with them, paying attention to them, responding with truth and love in relationship to them.