Just another closeted, pre-everything transgirl.

Some days, I spell it with an L.

Parent, Spouse, Programmer, Transgirl, ADHDer, woodworker, remodeler (DIYer), winemaker. Trying to figure myself out finally in this life after 4 decades.

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I’m interested in BDSM, erotica and good stories. True or fantasy isn’t important

If something affects me or my community, you can bet I have an opinion on it—and I don’t hold back. No one is safe, and nothing is off-limits. 🩷

In October 2023 I discovered I was transgender. I started as non-binary, now fully trans woman. I will write about my journey, and whatever else comes to mind.

Catch trans stories as they break at my daily news feed: @rikiwilchins. bsky. social